FRIENDS-CIRCLE

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What do you think about friend-circle? Did you guys ever be friend with a ‘friend’ who you don’t like?? What is your feeling? Are you feeling sooo uncomfortable? That’s what I feel nowadays.

I am a person who are not easy to get along to random people, why? Because I always read them first. If they are kind of friend who makes me so uncomfortable, I’ll leave ‘em.

Sounds strange, but I do believe that you guys do the same thing, aren't you?

I don’t like a friend who is saying all the bad things of mine directly (kinda hurt my heart)-> maybe I am difficult to open my heart to receive that (but still it’s rude when you talks to others about their bad things directly). Next, I don’t like a friend who is always teaches me all the things such I am a fool (like she/ he knows well than me)-> the reality is she/ he isn’t smart at all or even smarter than me. I am also don’t like a friend who always takes of advantages of mine. For the example, such as asking me to go somewhere then asked me to pay things (foods/ beverage), or she/ he borrows my stuffs (but she/he doesn’t give ‘em back), or laughing on my weaknesses, or asking to do things they want (like asking for a help of assignments, but she/ he is rude). Also! I don’t like a friend who blames me that I am wrong (Although the fact is that I said the truth, and he/she has no any new information, so actually who got wrong is him/her). Last! I don’t like a friend who talks about my bad things behind me, but acts good in front of me (poker-face).

Usually if I meet kinda friends like those, I will leave them, stop to follow them, talking a little bit. Why? Because, I don’t wanna make my self stress, and don't want to waste my time to talk with them.

But, sometimes we can not go from that “friend-circle”. In the case, you will meet somebody in class for an assignment such as group-presentation. You will meet friends with different characteristics, some of them you like, some of them you don’t. But how if all of them aren’t make you comfortable? Or in simple way “you don’t like them”. What will you do?

For me, I will contact to them only if we make the assignment (I will talk less but do more), why do more? I am sure, you don’t like them because they are do less, or talk more, or like to do other things than doing the assignment. You got what I mean?

Okay, in short I don’t want to waste my time or my energy to be friends with an “uncomfortable-friend”. Maybe this will be hurt you, but if you want to be friend with other, you have to change yourself. Don’t be selfish, because they have their opinion in their side. Don’t think that you always be true. Try to open your mind. And just think that how if you were me?

And you who don’t like an uncomfortable friend don’t be too emotion, just face it, don’t show an anger face or your uncomfortable feelings to others. And try to receive all the critics they said.

How about you??? Do you have any tips??

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