STOP GIVING A F*CK WHAT PEOPLE THINK

          Hello blogger! It’s been a while not write any articles... so here I’m back with my new thoughts.  It’s about not to care what people think of you. Yeah, we are living with unique people. We meet and see people around us that we don’t know their real personalities. People usually scan our physical, then guessing on what they see. Let’s talk about my past, when I was in an elementary school, my skin was really dark. I used to play football, kites, and did other outdoor activities. At that moment, I didn’t know  what so called “sun-block” or "hand-cream" so, my skin seemed black. Everybody stared at me and guessed my personality through “seeing”. They said, I’m black, ugly, and stupid. In people’s opinion (at that time) a person with a black skin was strange, stupid, and ugly.

          Year by year passed, the technology is upgrading and sophisticated. There are a lot of social medias that allow people think and comment on others easily. Let’s call them facebook, twitter, snapchat, instagram, tumbler, etc.

            For the example in instagram. Me myself when uploaded a photo in instagram, I’m never give a ffck what people will comment on my photo whether it is good or bad. First, I uploaded a photo cause I like that, I don't care what people will comment on it. Second, caring on what people think or comment about you is just ruin your day. Last, caring on what people think is not healthy, it gives bad impact, such as being stress and depression.

           I have a friend in instagram (I won’t mention her name), she’s a kind of person who wants to seek an attention from people. She likes uploading cute pictures of herself. Many people follow her, some of them leave good comments and some of them leave bad comments. So, one day she made a "give away". And... guess what?? She asked her followers to leave good comments on her 6 photos, and as the feedback she’ll give 3 gifts for 3 winners (who left good comments). BUT, this girl will get mad and say will block people who leave bad comments.

          Either bad comments or good comments can affect you. That’s why I said not to care about what they think about you. I found my friend commented on my pictures said that “Oh you are cute... you are beautiful, gorgeous... you are bitch, ugly, scary, etc.” At first, I shocked. How could these people commented on my pictures easily that other people can see those comments too. So, from now on I’m never care what people think about me. I know deeper down inside my self than others. And if I care about it, I will be stress. 
          Good comments sometime make someone selfish. While bad comments make someone stress, hate her/himself, and not confident. So, stop caring what people think about you. It isn't healthy.

          Let’s think, why do you want good comments and don’t want bad comments? Is that for selfish gain??  What do you think if you want to upload your photo?? Is that because of "a good photo" or... do you want to get a “compliment” from others??

         Dude, knowing yourself is better than cares about what people think of you. Cause the one who knows you more is yourself. So, if you stop caring what others opinion about you, you will less stress, feel free, love yourself for sure, being a happy person, confident, and not being selfish. When others give you bad comments just let them go! Like you let your poops or pees out into the deep down of the toilet in your fresh morning. If you do not poop or pee, it's not good for your healthy just like if you keep caring on what other people think, it's not good for your mental health.
        Remember that it is more important if you care about yourself than if you care what random strangers think of you. And when you are uploading your products on any social medias, make sure that you want to upload it because "it is good"/ "you like it", not "you want a compliment from others". Let's change our mindset, and live better with positive mind.